What do you need more… courage or compliments?
Think about it. Which one boosts you and buoys you? Which one gives you what you need to take the next step or do the next right thing?
For me, it’s courage that I need. Compliments are nice, really nice, but courage does something in me that is bigger and stronger.
I learned about the power of encouragement from my guide dog.
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It was a steamy July day in central Florida. I had been at the “dog school” for about 2 weeks for training with my new guide dog. Both William and I were getting pretty tired.
So far, we had worked on walking together and learning each other’s pace. I had learned how to give him the right hand commands and he knew just what I meant if I told him “busy, busy.” (If you don’t know what that means, well, it’s bathroom talk so I won’t elaborate.)
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“Good dog, William,” I cheered, “you’re a good boy!” In response to my praise, he would wag his tail but barely pick up his pace.
Finally, I realized we were way behind our group and we needed to walk faster. I could have gotten a step ahead of my slow-poke William and dragged him, but that kind of defeats the purpose of a “guide” dog! Don’t ya think?!
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He needed more than compliments… he needed encouragement.
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I get that because I am learning how much I need encouragement too.
Compliments are kind — who doesn’t want to hear, “your jeans are cute” or “good job”? But, while compliments flatter me, they don’t fuel me.
Encouragement is deeper than compliments, encouragement gives me courage.
In fact, to “encourage” someone means you grant them courage. Literally.
The word encourage comes from the Old French word, “encoragier” which means to make strong, add strength, or hearten.
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The people in our world need far more than compliments, they need encouragement.
As we give encouragement, we give courage to the one who feels weak or incapable, tired or unsure.
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Compliments flatter – they give praise, commendation, or admiration. Encouragement fuels — it gives support, confidence, and courage.
We encourage by offering applicable truth — such as:
“God has given you all you need for life and godliness, so keep trying because God has equipped you!” or “Don’t give up for you are not of those who shrink back!” (Hebrews 10:39)
We can also encourage each other by acts of support. To lend a hand when your friend is overwhelmed will grant her courage.
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There’s power in encouragement. It heartens the weak, emboldens the frightened and spurs on the weary.
So, sisters, let’s “encourage one another and build one another up.” (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
And, “Encourage each other daily while it is still called today.” (Hebrews 3:13)
Question: What are other ways you could encourage someone you love?